Challenging the Notion that a Woman Cannot Raise a Boy to Become a Man

In light of Mother’s Day, and us showing our love and appreciation for the women who made us what we are today. I’d like to challenge the long held belief that women are incapable of effectively raising boys to become men. An idea that has manifests itself in the form of popular youth culture via music, television, and the big screen. Time and time again this narrative is played out, and I wonder if we’ve unfairly bought into it.

Wanna know what I think? Well, it’s a foolish idea in my opinion which raises many questions. And to be honest this very idea supports the Moynihan Report of 1965, which suggests, particularly for the black community: “At the heart of the deterioration of the fabric of Negro society is the deterioration of the Negro family,” and that “The white family has achieved a high degree of stability and is maintaining that stability.”

I mean, what is it exactly that women are incapable of teaching young boys, that a man is better skilled, or suited to do? Is this yet another one of those firmly held beliefs shaped by the obvious gender bias in our largely patriarchal society? I mean, what exactly is it to “be a man”, and why is that women are supposedly incapable of teaching young boys to grow up to be just that?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.