Where Yo’ Man At?
Celebrity gossip… Despite rumblings to the contrary, I think it’s fair to surmise that on some level we all love getting a voyeuristic peek into…
Gender
Hypermasculinity, Homophobia and Homo-eroticism
Today while at work, I received a few heads up from some folks who were quite irritated with the rants my relative was making on…
Butt-Naked While Brown: Black Females, Normalcy and Taboo [NSFW]
Does Black Skin Equal Dirty? I ask that question after an exchange on the front porch (Facebook) that occurred after I posted the link to my Tumblr blog since…
There Can Be Only One: But What If I Have Two or Three??
My One and Only Nearly everyone I know is looking for the ‘One’ and not all of them are single people either. The “One” is this elusive magical union…
How a Florida Federal Judge Changed the Game By Demanding Due Process of the Law
Most people hope that if and when they need to stand before a court of law that there will be, to some degree, a…
Is Gay the New Black?
The question of the hour that everyone seems to be asking, from some Prop 8 white supremacists to Queen Latifah on VH1’s “Single Ladies.” Is…
Seeking Arrangement: Doing More Than “Stripping” To Pay Tuition
The pursuit of a higher education is no easy task. Truth be told, many students face many challenges. With finances or the lack thereof being number one,…
I Used to Love Him: Common’s “Ghetto Dreams”
Last week, blogger Necole Bitchie posted rapper Common’s new song “Ghetto Dreams” that was quite a deviation from the image he’s purveyed in the past.…
The Sunday Morning Sex Blog [Relationship Challenges]
I am playing the game I suppose,out of habitslearned long ago,but I have been in these watersfar longer thaneven my tired eyes could tell you.…
“Chasing Chocolate”: A White Man’s Tale of the Interracial Sexual Politics of Gay Male Communities
By: Johnathan Fields In my previous relationships, it has become very clear to my peers that a pattern developed: the majority of men I’d dated…