The slurs like sexism and harassment are used all the time when some are describing these guys actions. Can we at least use the words in their defined meaning without any silly skewing -feminist or otherwise.
Dongle joke was not harassment or sexism. Harassment is something you do to another party. Adria was not targeted. She doesn’t even have a penis, as far as I can tell. Sexism is discrimination based on person’s sex. Once again, nobody was discriminated.
Whether Adria should have reacted or not, it’s difficult to say since we were not there and even then we cannot always know what happens inside people’s minds and emotions. Personally I believe that Adria was wearing her feminist glasses and was more trigger prone than normally people are.
Of course writer is having a point by saying that men shouldn’t tell women how they should feel. But since many women disagree with Adria it basically dissolves the whole issue about gender. I think everybody can have their say how thick skin adults should have in our world. Put gender aside.If we go hysterical about importance of our feelings we might create world which is truly a horrible place to live.

Not only is this unprofessional, it’s possibly the worst move a PR rep could make in a professional environment. If the men’s private potty humor is grounds for termination because it was sophomoric in nature, Adria’s actions are easily up for the same type of scrutiny.

No one won here. An offensive joke was told in private, [fill in what parts of the story you want to acknowledge to nicely fit your narrative of choice], Internet chaos ensues. The end.