Archive for sex and spirituality

Gay People DO Get Married: The Curious Case of the Beard – When “the Gays” Marry Straight People

May 30, 2012 No Comments by

Looking through the current media available to the African American/Urban audience one could easily come to the conclusion that all Black women are heterosexual, church going, and desperate for marriage. On a recent article I addressed the impact of gender orientation, sexual identity and how it affected a person’s decision of whom they will and will [...]

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The Weekend Sex Blog: The Way to a Woman’s Heart (Remixed)

Dec 10, 2011 1 Comment by

I yearn to have you splayed and vulnerable. Radiating pleasure like light from the sun. First, let state from the outset that I may not know what the fuck I am talking about. On the other hand I submit that some will find at least a measure of truth within these few short sentences. Simply [...]

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The Sunday Sex Blog [Fucking for Revolution: Live Fully and Die]

Oct 16, 2011 No Comments by

…So quiet now. Soften yourself and listen. Connected and motionless.To the symphonic pulsing of our blood, the crash of an eyelid,the joyous trickle of a bead of sweat. Sooner or later, no matter how much you try to deny it, this moment will be your last. It’s the only punch line to this grand Cosmic Joke [...]

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The Friday Sex Blog [Expressions]

Aug 19, 2011 1 Comment by

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  – Marianne Williamson, from: A Return to Love Every day, every waking moment, you desire to do many things, from hugging your lover to earning [...]

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Coffee: An Erotica Short Story

Aug 19, 2011 4 Comments by

  Year 3017 Can I tell you about the night I lost my mind????? I’d say it was a stormy night and all that jazz but it was actually a balmy summer evening that we met.  She was unlike any woman I have ever known.  She was an impossibility, compiled of all my lusts.  Her [...]

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There Can Be Only One: But What If I Have Two or Three??

Aug 12, 2011 2 Comments

My One and Only Nearly everyone I know is looking for the ’One’ and not all of them are single people either. The “One” is this elusive magical union that will make life so much more fulfilling just as soon as that ‘One’ person shows up. I used to look for the ‘One’ until I realized there were several potential ‘Ones’  rotating in my atmosphere at [...]

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The Friday Sex Blog [Love]

Aug 05, 2011 No Comments

Your sleep:/ I have watched you wake/ a spectacle,/ an immediate vision of honesty./ And you reach out for me/ silently,/ without a plan/ and that is enough for me. These are the dog days of summer, lover, and you’re recklessly embroiled in a summer fling, drinking of that siren’s song of forgetfulness with autumn [...]

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The Friday Sex Blog [Mambo]

Jun 24, 2011 No Comments

[Note: Aside from its better-known definition of a Latin@ dance form, Mambo is the term for a female High Priestess in the Vodou religion. They are the highest form of clergy in the religion, whose responsibility it is to preserve the rituals and songs and maintain the relationship between the spirits and the community as [...]

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